Getting ready to tie the knot?
The more you and your partner can talk openly about your finances before the big day, the easier it will be to merge your lives and money, says Dupaco Community Credit Union’s Tonya McGlaughlin.
Here are six financial steps to take before you say, “I do”:
1. Have an honest discussion about your assets and debts
“I’ve seen people hide credit card debt from each other,” says McGlaughlin, branch manager at Dupaco’s San Marnan Learning Lab in Waterloo, Iowa. “All of that can become difficult to hide once you are married.”
These discussions can be tricky to navigate, so it can be helpful to involve a financial expert. A free Dupaco Credit History Lesson can help you review your debts, create a payoff plan that works for you both and even teach you how to drive up your credit scores.
2. Determine your shared financial goals
What are your hopes and dreams together?
“Make sure you have some shared goals, so you know what you’re saving for and working toward together,” McGlaughlin says.
3. Understand each other’s money mindsets
When you know your money personalities, it can help you have a better relationship with your money and each other. A financial personality quiz can be fun to take together—and it can offer insights into your money habits.
“You have to figure out what your role in the relationship will be financially,” McGlaughlin says. “Having honest conversations about how you spend your money will help you work together as a couple.”
4. Decide on joint or separate accounts—or a combination
Be open about your expectations when it comes to joint or separate financial accounts. Some couples merge everything, while others keep their finances mostly separate.
It comes down to what works best for each couple.
“Just because you’re getting married doesn’t mean you need to start sharing a checking account,” McGlaughlin says. “If you have a budget that works for you, who’s to say that has to change when you get married?”
But life happens, and it’s important to re-evaluate how your finances are allocated whenever you experience a life-changing event.
5. Create a budget
“A Money Makeover is a great thing to do together as a couple to help you decide who’s going to be on what accounts,” McGlaughlin says.
6. Be proactive with fraud prevention
As data breaches become all too common, it’s more important than ever to know what’s happening with your money.
Use Dupaco’s free eNotifier Alerts to keep tabs on withdrawals, deposits, purchases and more.
“I really encourage couples to use the eNotifiers, because people aren’t balancing checkbooks like they used to,” McGlaughlin says.
And with Dupaco’s free Bright Track credit monitoring, you can easily monitor your full credit report—and keep an eye on your credit scores.
“I’m seeing more spouses using Bright Track as a friendly competition with each other,” McGlaughlin says. “My husband and I do that, too.”